Marriage by Akonu Emmanuel

Marriage is supposed to be a blessing and not a curse. But the situation today is a cause for concern, it's as if marriage is something to be dreaded. You see, the keys (principles) that will make marriage work is revealed in the letters that make up the word marriage (M.A.R.R.I.A.G.E). The first letter M stands for MONEY: money plays a important part in the home. It is with money you pay bills, provide comforts and meet necessary obligations etc. The lack of money is causing so much tension in the family today.  Secondly, the letter A stands for AFFECTION (the feeling of liking and caring for someone). Thirdly, the letter R is for RESPONSIBILITY (what you are expected to do because it is morally right and legally required). The other letter R is for REMEMBER (to keep in your mind the reasons and purpose for saying yes to the relationship). If you feel like quitting, remember the good times, the love you shared and lovely moments in the past. The letter I is for INTIMACY (closeness, warmth and sexual relations). Then A is for AGREEMENT (a situation where both parties agree to a thing, share the same opinion and decide on a course of action). Agreement will cause increment in any relationship. Of course G is for GOD. God's presence and wisdom is what guarantees peace, protection and progress in a marital union. Finally, the letter E. which stands for ENJOYMENT. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed, not to be endured. It is not supposed to be a prison but a palace, not something to be regretted but a thing to be appreciated.


©Akonu Emmanuel